CONCEIVING: SEX SHOULD
BE FUN
If
you are trying to conceive for a while without any
success then keeping sex fun is a very difficult
proposition. Unless you enjoy love-making and do
it in a more relaxed and fun way conceiving will
also be difficult. Hence you have to balance both
these things. We have thus brought for you ways
in which you can make babies in a fun way enjoying
each step.
Be
relaxed
This is the most important aspect. Relax and be
at ease. Conceiving is very difficult if you think
about it all the time and be tensed. Remember that
love-making should be fun and you should enjoy it
no matter this time you are having sex with a purpose.
So the aim is to recapture the fun of making love,
because the more relaxed you are, the more chance
of making babies.
Think Positive
Try and stay positive. You aim is to conceive and
so work towards it and think positive. The chances
of getting pregnant in each cycle varies according
to a wide range of factors, but perhaps the most
important one is the woman's age. It will take a
couple in their early twenties an average of five
cycles to conceive. Women in their early thirties
will get pregnant, on average, after nine cycles.
One in ten couples will take more than a year to
succeed in conceiving. So if you're 32 and you've
been trying for six months without success then
take comfort in the fact that the average woman
your age takes nine cycles to conceive. So that
gives you three months before you even reach average.
So try to relax and think positively
Have Sex More Often
When your aim is to conceive it is important that
you have to have sex regularly and you have to be
spontaneous. Don't be under any kind of pressure
and have sex when you want to not when you think
you should if you are following any chart or advice
of your Doctor. Be adventurous and think about different
positions. Creativity can bring about excitement
and passion into love-making and that is a good
sign.
Take romantic breaks
Take a break from work and go out on weekends to
some romantic place. Being together in a romantic
place will ignite the passion and you might end
up being pregnant. If you already have child drop
the child at your mother's place and go on a second
honeymoon. If you don't have children yet then romantic
weekends are the best bet. You can have some morning
sex which is the best time to conceive.