What
is a G-Spot?
The "G" spot, so named after Dr. Ernest Grafenberg
who wrote in 1950 an article about his discovery of
this area of the female body, is a bean shaped mass
of nerve tissue behind the clitoris located just the
other side of the pubic bone on the upper wall of
the vagina. The size and development of the urethral
sponge can vary from woman to woman and can be anywhere
from the size of a dime to a silver dollar, hence
no two women will respond to G-spot stimulation in
exactly the same way. G-spot once stimulated gives
a woman immense pleasure and is a focal point of sexual
arousal.
How to locate G-spot?
To locate G-spot either you can do it yourself or
take the help of your partner. Locating G-spot together
is not only fun by it will help you reach the peak
of sexual satisfaction. You must be able to guide
your partner and should be open as to what feels good
and how your partner should stimulate your G-spot.
So, start out by kissing and stroking, caressing and
teasing each other until you two can't stand it any
more and penetration is necessary. Vaginal stimulation
may be unpleasant if the vagina is not well lubricated.
Production of vaginal lubrication varies dramatically
from female to female. Hence if vaginal dryness is
a concern, make sure to use a water-based lubricant
during your exploration.
The exact location of the G-Spot varies slightly from
woman to woman. It is normally found about two inches
in from the opening of the vagina, on the anterior
wall (toward the stomach). Place two fingers into
her vagina. Using your index finger, touch the anterior
wall. It generally feels best if you keep consistent,
firm pressure along the entire length of the fingers
against the vaginal walls. Stop rotating and rest
your fingertips on the (often slightly ridged) area
of the vagina just behind the pubic bone and exert
pressure upwards, towards her belly. This is direct
G-spot stimulation, and it usually feels best if you
move the fingers in small, slow circles, or point
the fingers more sharply upwards and rock them forwards
and back.
Positions that help locate and stimulate G-spot?
The G-Spot is easily located with the help of a partner
while the women is lying on her belly with her hips
slightly elevated. When in this position, one's partner
should apply light pressure to the vaginal wall with
two or three fingertips while pressing down (towards
the bed).
If a woman chooses to lie on her back, she or her
partner can insert a couple of fingers curved upwards
and then press upward with the tip of the fingers
until you are pressing the G-Spot.
If engaging in intercourse, many women find the woman-on-top
or the sitting position the best arrangement for providing
stimulation to the G-Spot.
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