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HOW
TO MAKE FRIENDS AT COLLEGE
Does
that sound so difficult? It isn't, believe me. When
you enter college you find friends of the same age
group. Everyone out there must be looking out for
friends. Unless you are a very reserved and shy kind
of person it is very easy to be friends with people
of your class and college. Making friends should not
be a problem at all. Still, it requires effort and
a willingness to extend yourself at times. You need
to open up and be welcoming.
First and foremost don't wait for people to come and
introduce themselves to you. Start with introducing
yourself. Take the initiative and cut the ice. Once
you have introduced yourself it will be easy to do
the rest. Don't be snobbish and arrogant.
Attend parties, sports events and special gatherings
where people socialize. Remain open to new cultures,
ideas and values. Invite people to join you for a
bite to eat and a drink. This way you can make friends
fast.
Help out your classmates or people who are in trouble.
Be co-operative and bubbly. Don't be tense or irritated
and even if you are don't show that on your face otherwise
no one will like to be with you. Throw a party occasionally
and attend all parties if possible.
Be loquacious but don't talk nonsense, sociable, chatty,
talkative, friendly, outgoing, helpful, amiable, congenial,
neighbourly, approachable, easygoing and smart. All
this will help you get the best friends you want at
college.
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